Posts Tagged ‘Connecticut’

Dolores Hart: Another Reason To Look Forward To Oscar Night

Friday, February 24th, 2012

I always love watching the Oscars, even as I always bitch about how long and boring the show is. This year I’m having people over for dinner to watch, so it should be lively no matter how good/bad the show is. But one of the things I’m really looking forward to is the appearance of Dolores Hart, the actress who gave Elvis his first screen kiss….and who later became a nun.

Hart is the subject of an Oscar-nominated short documentary, “God Is The Bigger Elvis,” which will air on HBO in April.  (The New York Times has the story.) Despite being in poor health and despite the fact that she’s Mother Dolores now, living at a monastery in Connecticut, she’ll walk the red carpet on Sunday night. I really hope the film wins, so she’ll be on stage and receive a standing O from the audience.

In the meantime, I found a piece that “20/20″ did about her not that long ago. It gets cut off at the end, but it’s fascinating.

Imagine giving up a life in Hollywood at the height of your stardom. Hart’s honesty in the ABC segment is refreshing. She’s asked whether it was a difficult decision to leave the movie business and cloister herself away at the monastery, and she says it was.

And by the way, she’s still beautiful. Not every woman can wear that habit.

Photo: Wendy Carlson/New York Times

 

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Disoriented In California

Wednesday, September 7th, 2011

It’s good to be home, don’t get me wrong, but after a month-plus in Connecticut it’s a little weird too.

Here’s why:

  1. It’s not raining. (In CT it never stopped raining, or so it seemed.)
  2. My body is still on Eastern Standard Time.
  3. There’s way too much mail to sort through.
  4. I have to get back to doing real life things, like going to the dentist tomorrow.
  5. I watched the Republican debate at 5 instead of at 8. (Does Rick Perry have a neck? His collar was really high – or something.)
  6. I’m hungry for no good reason.
  7. My car’s tires are kind of flat.
  8. There are ants in the house.
  9. There’s a dog in the neighborhood that suddenly barks a lot.
  10. I’m out of new books for my Kindle. (Suggestions are welcome.)
  11. I need to resume my writing routine.
  12. I need to resume my walking routine.
  13. I need to call friends and say, “I’m back.”
  14. I need to get some sleep.

Vacations are great and I really enjoyed myself while I was away. But it’s hard to re-enter reality.

 

 

 

 

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Husbands Come In Handy In A Hurricane

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

At least mine did.

With our vacation in Connecticut seriously compromised by Hurricane Irene, Michael was my hero. The house we’ve been renting lost power and phone, and we were desperate to make our escape and get food and water after the storm passed on Sunday, not to mention be able to use our cell phones to call family and friends.

We got into the rental car and slowly made our way up the driveway – only to find this.

A large pine had fallen and was blocking our escape. Trapped! The grassy area to the right of the downed tree was much too soggy to drive over; we would have gotten suck in the muck for sure.

“What now?” I said, weary and wishing I could fly back to California.

“I think I spotted a saw in the garage,” said Michael.

“Really?” I said. When I rent somebody’s house, I notice things like dishes and glassware and sheets, not saws.

“Yeah,” he said and off he went, slogging through the mud back to the house.

Minutes later he returned with a saw that looked like it would be as effective for freeing us as a butter knife.

But Michael was on a mission. It took forever but he managed to make a cut in one section of the tree, then started on another.

Eventually, he was victorious and we were able to get out. Somehow. If only the roads had been clear when we did get out. We were thwarted at every turn and went back to the house to sit in the dark and eat cold blueberry pie.

We’re still waiting for the power to come back on, but it could be awhile. In the meantime, I have new respect for Paul Bunyan Michael.

 

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All This Rain Is Annoying

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

When I got to Connecticut last week to start my vacation, everybody’s lawns were brown. “We need rain” was the common refrain. “It’s been so dry. If only we could get a good, steady drenching.”

I remember thinking, How about a good, steady drenching after I go back to California?

Apparently, I’ve been punished for my selfishness. It rained on Saturday. It rained on Sunday. It rained a little bit yesterday. It rained hard and long today. The lawns are have gone from this…

To this.

Okay, I’m exaggerating, but still. Enough already with the wet stuff. I tried to take a walk this afternoon and got soaked. We planned a barbecue tonight and it got canceled. The good news is I’ve been able to get some writing done without feeling as if I’m missing something in the great outdoors. In fact, rain is the perfect backdrop for an author with a book deadline.

I take back what I said about the rain. Let it pour.

 

 

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My Love Affair With Soft-Shell Crabs Might Be Over

Sunday, August 7th, 2011

I first fell in love with the little creatures in the ’70s. I was in France one summer and I think I had them practically every night. They were sauteed. They were broiled. They were breaded. They were dusted with almonds. They were prepared every which way, and I adored every bite.

I continued to eat them when I lived in Manhattan where they were on menus every spring/summer. They were fewer and far between after I moved to Florida and still more scarce in restaurants once I settled in California.

Did I forget about them? Absolutely not.

Last night, during our annual August pilgrimage to Connecticut, we went out for dinner with friends to an Italian place in New Milford called Piccolino’s. I spotted soft-shell crabs among the specials on their blackboard and pounced.

“I haven’t had them in ages,” I told the waitress. “I’m really excited.”

She tried to smile, but she had an earring in her top lip and the piercing made smiling difficult, apparently.

The crabs arrived and my heart sank. They looked mushy. I hate that. Too much butter sauce and probably overcooked.

I took my first bite and tried not to pout. No crunchiness of the legs. No rich crab flavor. No delicate seasoning. Just blobs on a plate.

Did the experience turn me off to soft-shells forever? I don’t know, but it’ll take me awhile to jump back in.

 

 

 

 

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